tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post404005267433357011..comments2024-02-12T18:54:37.441-08:00Comments on Guy Dads: 12 Things: Coming Out LateGuyDadshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06225290125508992039noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-81309680876512388142013-09-19T22:34:19.907-07:002013-09-19T22:34:19.907-07:00It seems pretzel logic to lawyer up to screw your ...It seems pretzel logic to lawyer up to screw your spouse, then give back to the "community". Nobody gave you more support than your spouse, nor can you claim any respect for the institution of marriage if you embezzle/betray that inherent support in search of getting your rocks off.<br /><br />You personally may feel compelled to support the community as you sort out your new identity, but there is such a thing as integrity to consider.<br /><br />You owe a debt to your spouse, you used them for your "privileged" life then turned 180 on them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-57998165068923103362013-03-20T02:49:32.460-07:002013-03-20T02:49:32.460-07:00All true here, very good to see others advice!All true here, very good to see others advice!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15984682305902002713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-44081995533391543622007-10-27T07:14:00.000-07:002007-10-27T07:14:00.000-07:00Great post! I just found this blog today and I'm g...Great post! I just found this blog today and I'm glad I did! The fact that you're sharing your family experiences with everyone is amazing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-39594251123309827102007-10-18T17:00:00.000-07:002007-10-18T17:00:00.000-07:00This is a terrific list. Thanks for sharing some o...This is a terrific list. Thanks for sharing some of the wisdom that you've gathered along the way, possibly by painful experience, some of it.A Bear in the Woodshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11013721650938158869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-19558100326739602042007-10-17T23:10:00.000-07:002007-10-17T23:10:00.000-07:00Words to live by -- thanks for the "how-to."Words to live by -- thanks for the "how-to."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-64226550192886379012007-10-16T12:09:00.000-07:002007-10-16T12:09:00.000-07:00What an amazing and wise post. I'm right there in...What an amazing and wise post. I'm right there in the midst of it: 51 and on the way out. And for me that means on the way UP! <BR/><BR/>Thanks for this great post. I must stop whining about "why didn't I do this sooner." <BR/><BR/>Thank you!<BR/><BR/>Like Troll, I got here from Bigg's site.Vic Mansfieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06194671996997775313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-79576001677745852022007-10-16T01:42:00.000-07:002007-10-16T01:42:00.000-07:00hey just found your blog today. nice! I didn't kno...hey just found your blog today. nice! I didn't know Jewish church allows gay marriage... will be back for more!Kai Santorinohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06585582993884800205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-87265954170278836272007-10-15T11:08:00.000-07:002007-10-15T11:08:00.000-07:00AGD:Good post, which I found via a recommendation ...AGD:<BR/><BR/>Good post, which I found via a recommendation from Bigg at Chambered Nautilus.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for starting with #1. I am just beginning to see how my need for clarity and "cleanliness" got me to do a number of pretty stupid things. <BR/><BR/>But then, all "religious" acts look stupid, and in the big picture, if I could have purchased treatment as a human being at the price of stupidity, I would have considered it a bargain.<BR/><BR/>I would add a 5a, which is:<BR/>While you are busy finding out about yourself and the world that is now yours, don't forget to honor the life that WAS yours. It's a delicate balancing act.<BR/><BR/>I have personally found the demand to adopt a range of particular attitudes because of coming out as oppressive as, if not more oppressive than, anything I met before.<BR/><BR/>Just one Mighty Faggot's opinion.<BR/><BR/>T@CA Troll At Seahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09247836451322342385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-38467005866453931782007-10-11T17:54:00.000-07:002007-10-11T17:54:00.000-07:00Awesome post. So many good things to think about d...Awesome post. So many good things to think about during a tough time.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04542013102975641899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10861879.post-75612194502550144262007-10-11T16:27:00.000-07:002007-10-11T16:27:00.000-07:00THIS IS good STUFF! I would like to link to it or...THIS IS good STUFF! I would like to link to it or even copy and of course give you credit for it!<BR/><BR/>BTW, you KNOW me, you just don't know it yet.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com