Thursday, June 02, 2016

Toys in the Attic

I recently came across a Pinterest collection of old toys. It made me nostalgic for my old play things. Here are some of things that occupied my youth. They are from the 60s and early 70s.
Creepy Crawlers. My favorite. 
Wikipedia describes Creepy Crawlers as: "a series of die-cast metal molds resembling various bug-like creatures, into which is poured a liquid chemical substance called "Plastigoop", which comes in assorted colors (including glow-in-the-dark). The mold is then heated to about 390 °F (199 °C) on an open-face electric hot plate oven. The Plastigoop is cured by the heat, and when cooled forms semi-solid, rubbery replicas which can be removed from the mold."

Hot Wheels cars and track. I spent many hours with track set up around the house.
I also had the Hot Wheels Supercharger.

Matchbox cars. Same size as Hot Wheels but without the fast wheels.

A Barrel of Monkeys was always useful for decorating.

Clackers, an obnoxious toy. Taken off the market as a safety hazard. 

Loved my Crayons

The board game I played the most. I liked it better than Monopoly. 

Gum cards
I didn't collect baseball cards. Was never interested in them. However, I loved collecting Batman cards and a host of others. The above photo shows a sample of some of them. TV shows Alf, Dark Shadows, Rowan & Martin's Laugh-In, Batman and crazy cars.

My first real bike was a Huffy lime green.

Our family enjoyed playing lawn Jarts in the backyard. Nobody died or were impaled.

Legos. Hours of fun.
A small glass bowl sat on my dresser for years.

I loved taking left over model car parts and creating my own vehicles.

Turn upside down and back: "Mooooooooo"

I could have been a doctor.

A great way to drive one's younger brother to tears.

I had a passion for collecting small, plastic men and animals.

Loved the smell of Play-Doh. I also had a Play-Doh Fun Factory.

Home Pong, only video game I learned to play.

Didn't play with the gun so much. Enjoyed unrolling the caps and hitting them with a rock.

My collection of Sinclair Dinoland Waxy-Plastic Dinosaurs from 1964 Worlds Fair in NYC.
Sinclair Dinoland Mold-a-Rama dinosaurs were available in seven different dinosaur designs and came in many different colors. They cost 25c to make and were a popular and affordable souvenir of the 1964-1965 New York World's Fair. Somehow mine have survived all these years.
Sparklers were a 4th of July tradition.

I must have had dozens of Superballs of all sizes.

Always bought View-Master reels of vacation sites.

My pocket water gun.
Always watched the TV show too.
Pollywogs, also known as tadpoles. I would collect them in a pail when I was in first and second grade.

Friday, May 13, 2016

Friday Bread or It's a Dog's Life

For the last couple years, I posted two blog posts about the similarity between men and bread. Check them out here and here. Today they would be memes.

There are a series of bread products and dogs memes that I find amusing and I have posted them here.

A Bagel or Sleeping Puppy?

A tired Pug or loaf of bread?

Croissant or Shar Pei?

Is it a Chihuahua or Blueberry Muffin?

Friday, April 22, 2016

Remembrance: Lori

Today would have been my first wife’s 58th birthday. Unfortunately Lori died way to soon from Multiple Sclerosis when she was only 32.

The picture is from 1985 and it was taken in my parents’ back yard when we were both 27 years old. The picture is amusing to me because Lori was the real swimmer in the family. She could swim laps for hours in the pool. She also played water polo in high school and college. I, on the other hand, could only swim the length of the pool and stop and rest.

Wednesday, February 03, 2016

Beginning My Third Year of Chemotherapy

Ed visiting Greece last summer
My husband, Eddie, posted on Facebook:
“So the journey continues for Ed. A recent PET Scan has shown the “chemo lite” he has been on for the past few months is not working as it should. The cancer nodes are advancing again in his lungs. Fortunately, the metastasized colorectal cancer has not spread yet beyond the lungs. However, Thursday he will be back on the more virulent chemo he was on for 24 weeks each of the last two years, this time the same combination as in 2015, to see if it works again to reduce the growths. The doctors will monitor closely to see if the advancement is curtailed. If not (and the treatments may not work again even if they did last year), then we will be on to the next stage of treatments. Ed also now has mounting fluid in the lining of his lungs (common for this type of cancer) that is beginning to cause some breathing and coughing issues at times. BUT, the energizer bunny keeps marching forward. He is still working at Stanford, walking 2 miles each way to work, and seeing theatre like a mad man (14 shows and a ballet in JANUARY)! We are hoping he can continue at a close or similar pace for a long time. Keep your good thoughts pumping his way! Thanks for all your continued support!!”

More details: I am about to start my third year and another round of FOLFIRI chemo. I did FOLFOX 2 years ago and I’m dealing with the debilitating side effects of chemo induced peripheral neuropathy. I then went on Panitumumab for a couple of months. That was a mistake; it had no positive effect in preventing tumor growth. Then last year, the chemo combination was changed to FOLFIRI. Meanwhile, complications are starting to pile up. Last summer I had to deal with an anal fissure that I think was caused by constipation. (That’s not counting the anal fistula I had to deal with prior the starting chemotherapy.) This past fall I developed a blood clot in my leg. I was on Coumadin for a couple of months but I couldn’t stabilize the dosage. I am now on Pradaxa. Last week I was told that the coughing and chest pain I was caused by malignant pleural effusion (fluid in the lining of my lungs).

Friday, January 08, 2016

Elvis, Nixon and Ed

January 8th is Elvis’ birthday. He would be 71 today if he hadn’t died in 1977 at 42 years old. Earlier this week I noticed a new Elvis album was release this year. Who knew? The new album is called “If I Can Dream” and it features archival vocal recordings of Elvis accompanied by new orchestral arrangements by the Royal Philharmonic Orchestra. I have listened to several tracks and found them to be very good. Here’s “Steamroller Blues” on Youtube.

Also out today was a official movie trailer for “Elvis & Nixon” staring Kevin Spacey and Michael Shannon. The movie is described as: The untold true story behind the meeting between the King of Rock 'n Roll and President Nixon, resulting in this revealing, yet humorous moment immortalized in the most requested photograph in the National Archives.

Tomorrow is Richard Nixon’s birthday. It is also my birthday too. Yeah, the big 58.

Here is the most requested photo from the National Archives:

Thursday, December 24, 2015

Year 2015 in Review

2015 was a challenge for me health wise. It is my second year of trying to manage the return of my cancer. Six years ago I had colorectal cancer that was treated with surgery. It has now spread to my lungs and I am on constant chemotherapy. The chemo treatments are hard and exhausting. The side effects can be debilitating. Just a couple of the side effects I have had are an acne/hive-like spots all over my body, an anal fissure caused by constipation, on going neuropathy (numbness) in my hands and feet, and blood clot in my leg. Despite all these challenges, I have kept busy and active.

I am still working nearly full time at Stanford doing computer support. I walk to and from the university campus when I can, a 2-mile trip.

My husband Eddie and I have had an active social calendar. Here’s a brief recap of the trips we took:
January: Return from a 2-week holiday visit in Fort Lauderdale, FL;
A getaway weekend in San Francisco;
A wine weekend in Healdsburg, CA with friends.
February: A week long LGBT cruise around Cuba.
April: Another getaway weekend in San Francisco.
May: Long weekend in Dallas, TX visiting friends;
Eddie travels to Nashville & Paris, TN for a wedding;
Ed spends the weekend in Santa Cruz, CA with 2 of his kids.
June: Pride weekend in San Francisco.
August: European vacation. Week in Rome, Atlantis Mediterranean cruise: Naples, Crete, Mykonos, Santorini, Bodrum, and Ephesus, 3-days in Istanbul and 4-days in London.
October: long weekend in Sacramento, CA with a visiting friend.
November: Thanksgiving week at a beautiful Bed and Breakfast in Mendocino, CA.
December: back to Fort Lauderdale, FL for a 2-week holiday.

Throughout the year we visited 34 museums both locally and abroad. While in Italy, Greece and Turkey we trekked around countless archeological sites. We also attended the ballet, SF Giants baseball games and several benefits and fundraisers. We hosted several large diner parties and visiting friends. However, our biggest accomplishment is seeing 144 live theatre and opera productions in 2015. 
While we usually see 80 to 100 shows a year, this has been a record for us. For 131 of the shows, Eddie has written a full review which he posted on Theatre Eddys.  Of those 144, we rated 53 as “5 E” (our top rating), representing 21 different theatre companies.  This year, the most “5 E” ratings went to American Conservatory Theatre and TheatreWorks (5 each), followed closely by San Francisco Playhouse and Berkeley Repertory Company (4 each).

Choosing “Top Lists of the Year” is made complicated by so many outstanding productions in a region blessed with so many phenomenal companies of all sizes (over 300 stages in the SF Bay Area).  Skip over to Theatre Eddys for a take on the best of the best for 2015.

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Rob Lowe Is Teasing Me

My celebrity buddy is being playfully flirtatious and provocative. Rob Lowe is doing the late night circuit to promote his new TV comedy series, The Grinder. From what I read it is “sitcom about a popular TV lawyer whose drama series ends, so he returns to his hometown to work in the family law firm, where he squares off with his younger brother. Co-staring Fred Savage.” I have not seen the show and not likely to for a while. We don’t have TV or cable hookup or stream anything.

Anyway, Rob recently appeared on the Jimmy Kimmel Live show on ABC to joke about a new social media app that helps single viewers of his new comedy meet like-minded others.


I only met Rob Lowe once back in the early ‘90s. You can read about it here. And more about him here and here.

Sunday, November 01, 2015

Overdue recap of our August vacation

Our August 2015 trip to Europe had several themes running through it:
- Exploring in depth the Ancient worlds of Rome, Greece, and Turkey.
- Meeting some wonderful new friends and spending time with current, dear friends.
- Dressing in wild (mostly underwear-oriented) costumes aboard an 11-day gay cruise of 2800+ men.
- Dealing with British Airlines and 4 lost bags, one of which a month later is still to be delivered to us.
- Cancer.  Just can't get away from it.  It was omni-present for Ed.  Throughout the vacation he was dealing with on going side effects of his chemotherapy treatment despite being on a break from it. Throughout the trip he experienced very difficult and painful at times.  But he never slowed or refused to do what was on the itinerary!

For those interested, here is what we did day-by-day in terms of the major sites we visited and our opinions.  We took over 3000 pictures, and it will surely be a couple of months before a couple of Shutterfly picture albums appear.  But, they shall; and when they do, I will post the link for anyone who wants to peruse them.

Where do we go next year?  No plans yet.  Because of Ed’s ongoing chemotherapy treatments, one day/month at a time for a while.  But I am sure it will be somewhere fun and fascinating.

Day 1: Friday, August 7, 2015
Left SFO on a wonderful British Air, overnight flight to London, using miles to fly business-class.  With good food and wine and a flat bed to rest, the vacation commenced on very high notes.

Day 2:  Saturday, August 8, 2015
Arrived in Rome soon to discover, along with at least 200 others, that none of our (or their) luggage had arrived.  We learned, only after landing, that there had been a 2-day luggage handlers strike at Heathrow in two of the terminals (of course, ours being one).  We joined in line with lots of other frustrated, upset people -- all facing two frightened-looking clerks who were of no help at all.

We arrived 2.5 hours later than we had told our MisterBnB (like AirBnB, but for gays) home to be greeted by what turned out to be the nicest man in the world, Gianfranco, who before the week was out, became a dear friend and was a life savior for us.  Our beautiful, large accommodation had views of the Colosseum and was walking distance to many of Rome’s ancient and modern key sites.  It was also three blocks of what is known as "Gay Street," where we had a late afternoon beer each day after seeing sights and where we ate all our dinners. “Gay Street” is a LGBT friendly area on Via San Giovanni in Laterano, a street leading to the east flank of the Colosseum. Late that night we filled ourselves with pizza and took some great evening pictures of the Colosseum.

Day 3:  Sunday, August 9, 2015
Today, we plunged head-first into the glory days of the Roman Empire (after first visiting Coin Department Store the minute it opened to buy some clothes, hats, sunscreen, etc.).  We visited:
- The Basilica San Giovanni (Rome's largest and official church, more important to Romans than the Vatican).  (Visited while waiting for the store to open!)
- The Colosseum (Hint:  Buy tickets in advance online to avoid hours-long lines.  Tickets also included the Roman Forum and Palatine Hill.)
- Walked above and took many pictures of the Roman Forum, of the Sacred Way, Trajan's Forum, and other nearby ancient ruins.
- Spent a couple hours in the Capitoline Museums, the world's oldest public museums that house amazing, ancient statuary.  We took loads of pictures (especially of all the naked male statues, LOL.)  Took more pictures of the Forum from above and at different angles.  Michelangelo largely designed the Piazza del Campidoglio where the museums are.
- Visited Il Vittoriano (aka the Altare della Patria) and the Piazza Venezia, "an ostentatious, overpowering mountain of white marble" (as one guide book accurately described it), inaugurated in 1911 to celebrate the united Italy.  Now the home of the Unknown Soldier, Italians refer to it as the 'wedding cake.'
- Walked through the beautiful lanes of Palatino (Palatine Hill), once home to the rich and elite of ancient Rome.
- Had a beer on Gay Street.  Took a nap (Ed) & washed out the few clothes we had (Eddie).  Then ate our first of THREE dinners at the wonderful, little restaurant Clementine's (an imaginative Italian menu with lots of California influences) and met the owner, Diana, who also became a friend before the week was up.

Day 4:  Monday., August 10, 2015
- Made our way on the Underground Metro to Vatican City and spent the bulk of the day (5-6 hours) in the massive Vatican Museums.  (We arrived to find our online tickets were bogus.  Only through the good nature of one cute museum employee were we able to go ahead and buy new tickets rather than having to go get in a line that was at least .25 mile long (maybe more) of folks who did not have tickets.)
- Our surprise at the Vatican Museums is how many of the museum's magnificent sub-museums are full of ancient, naked sculptures.  Hmmm.  Highlights beyond all of those included incredible tapestries and the several frescoed Raphael rooms that were much more (to us) astounding than the celebrated Sistine Chapel. We were not all that impressed with chapel ... especially with the shoulder-to-shoulder crowds, the tense atmosphere and very rude guards. The frescoes are so high up (nearly 68 feet) the iconic art appeared to be thumbnail sized.
- We meant to go inside St. Peter's Basilica (where Eddie had been but not Ed), but the line to enter circled all of St. Peter's Square, so we passed on that one after taking several outside photos.
- We decided to walk the hour or so to get back to our home base of the Colosseum area (and Gay Street's cold beers).  Took lots of photos along the way, including of Castel Sant'Angelo, a round castle on the Tiber of Emperor Hadrian and converted in 6th Century into a papal fortress.
- Had dinner later that night (always around the 10 p.m. time) overlooking the Colosseum at a nice balcony restaurant.
(We did receive notice that all 4 bags had arrived at noon from London to Rome Airport. As it turned out, that did not help a lot.  Rome Airport was overwhelmed with thousands of bags and was ill-prepared and seemingly not-inclined to deal with them very fast.)

Day 5:  Tuesday, August 11
- Spent two hours with 98 other people (all of us who had gotten tickets at least a week ahead for the restricted visit) at the incredibly gorgeous Museo e Galleria Borghese in Villa Borghese (a mammoth, wooded park very much like Golden Gate Park in SF, home to museums, lots of trails, etc.).  Never have we seen a baroque setting quite like this, full of Bernini's amazing sculptures and many works of art by Raphael, Titian, Caravaggio, and others.  The ceilings are among the most jaw-dropping I have ever seen in this 'little' palace that Cardinal Scipone built and supplied amply (often threatening artists and other collectors with excommunication if they dared asked him to pay what their works were worth).  Several generations of his family (the Borgheses) continued to add to the art, including Napoleon Bonaparte's sister, Camilio Borghese.  This is a MUST SEE when in Rome, but advance tickets are a requirement.
- Visited the National Gallery of Modern Art (Galleria Nazionale d'Arte Moderna), and we were really impressed and delighted.
- Next, went to the National Estruscan Museum (Museo Nazionale Etrusco), housed in the former mansion of Pope Julius III (Villa Giulia) and displaying some of the most important pieces of Etruscan art in the world.  Another 'don't miss when in Rome'.  (We had already fallen in love with Etruscan history and art after a major exhibit several years ago in SF.)
- Walked home along a pedestrian mall street (Via del Corso).  Got caught in a major downpour without umbrellas.  Waited it out in a small, old church in Piazza del Popola.
- Dinner next to the Colosseum at an outdoor, gay-owned restaurant where we met other guys going on the same cruise as us later in the week.
(Today, our first bag arrived, but it was a small one with books, toiletries, and odds and ends in it.  No clothes or shoes.)

Day 6:  Wednesday, August 12
- Waited all morning until 1 p.m. for 2 more luggage bags to arrive.  Luckily, these were the two large ones with all our clothes and all our cruise party costumes!  But still, no bag with all our shoes.
- Walked to the Circus Maximus, which is mostly open ground now but still impressive in its huge size.
- Saw Temples di Ercole and Portunus, both dating to somewhere around the 2nd century, BCE.
- Explored the Teatro di Marcello (Theatre of Marcellus), where concerts are still held.  Took a walk around it and nearby in what was once the Jewish Ghetto of Rome, the first and oldest in Europe. Shop signs in Hebrew still seen along the bumpy, busy Via del Portico d'Ottavia, speaking to the heritage when this was the eastern boundary of the small, crowded part of the City the Church 'allowed' the Jews to live.
- Under renovation, we went past but could not see much of the Portico d'Ottavia, a colonnaded walkway built in 147 BCE by Augustus to display statues plundered from Greece.  The area later became a fish market during medieval times and up to the end of the 19th century.
- Went to the Sinagoga (the Great Synagogue and now also Museum, constructed in 1904 after the unification of Italy).  The museum tells the horrific story of the persecution of Jews in Rome from 1555 -- all started by Papal Bull -- and continuing through WWII and the Nazi occupation in 1943 and 1944.
- Crossed the Tiber and the small Tiber Island on the Ponte Fabricio (built 62 BCE).  Walked through the winding, shop and cafe-laden alleys and streets of Trastevere (which becomes entertainment central in the evenings, or so we were told).
- With pain about to cripple him, Ed stumbled the long walk back to our place.  But after some rest, we headed to Clementine's for another amazing meal and a fun conversation with the owner, Diana.

Day 7:  Thursday, August 13
- On our last day, we saw some of the other iconic, Roman sites that we had so far missed, all planned in a walk by our wonderful B&B host and now-friend, Gianfranco.
- But first, we went shoe shopping (since it was evident that our 4th bag was not to be delivered before we boarded our ship on Friday).  Luckily, sales abounded since Rome closes everything (all stores, most restaurant, most pharmacies, many museums) for at least a week, beginning with Ascension Day, Aug. 15.  There are worse things than shopping for shoes in Italy!!
- We first explored the many levels of the Basilica of San Clemente, a present church where we descended various levels to medieval and paleo-Christian layers to the lowest depths where the members of the ancient cult of Mithras met and performed grisly rituals.  There are still areas being excavated for further discoveries.
- We walked to both the movie-famous Trevi Fountain and Spanish Steps.  Unfortunately, the Fountain was turned off and totally under rehabilitation as was the landmark church overlooking the Spanish Steps (Chiesa della Trinity dei Monti).  Still, the steps gave Ed a shady spot to rest while I climbed to the top for some picture taking.
- As in Paris, the Pantheon of Rome (120 CE) is huge and very impressive.  Its inner dome is immense and considered one of Rome's most important architectural achievements.  Still today it is the largest unreinforced concrete dome ever built.
- One of our most enjoyable times in Rome was spending a late-afternoon lunch of thin-crust pizza and a mountainous serving of gelato at the immense and very busy Piazza Navona, eating at AI Tre Tariff.  Three beautiful fountains, many outdoor restaurants, and a constant parade of the world's visitors (not to mention a superb front-row table at an excellent restaurant) made this a hit.
- Less impressive by the time we reached it in the late afternoon as clean-up was occurring from its famed outdoor market was Campo de' Fiori.  And we were too early for its transformation into a supposed raucous, outdoor pub in the evening.   Oh well, next time.
- After our normal nap and rest, we surprised Diana by coming back yet one more time to eat and socialize at Clementine's and to grab lots of pictures with our new friend and the hot, young waiter who had served us all week (and whose name we never got!).

Day 8:  Friday, August 14
- Leaving reluctantly our friend and BnB host, Gianfranco, and with only 3 of our 4 pieces of luggage, we transferred the 70 minutes to the port city of Civitavecchia to board the luxurious Celebrity Equinox with over 2800 of our closest friends from 45 countries.  We had our first taste of an afternoon tea dance (a sail-away party) at 5, martinis, dinner, and then a great stage show by the British drag queen La Voix.

Day 9: Saturday, August 15
- Before we went ashore to the port of Naples, Eddie began the first of 7 personal training sessions he had with the wonderful Marco of the Canyon Ranch Spa on board.  Over the course of the cruise, Marco gave Eddie 5 days worth (all videoed) of exercises and stretches to help strengthen his lower back and to build some upper body strength as well as to work on balance and spinal alignment.  (Now the question is, will he really follow through at home?  Time will soon tell.)
- Ascension Day, August 15, is a nationwide public holiday where most things are closed. We arrived in Naples to explore first the winding streets and palazzos of the Old Town and then to walk quite the distance to the famed Museo Archeologico Nazionale (the National Archeological Museum) where we spent several hours exploring the many artifacts from Pompeii and Herculaneum, both destroyed by vicious volcanic eruptions.  We had a pizza lunch at a delightful outdoor cafe first (one of the few open today) and sat out a rainstorm for an hour or so having a couple of Diet Cokes.  We had hoped to end the day visiting the massive "New Castle" near the harbor but only got to take pictures from the outside since it closed early to prepare for a big, holiday concert that night.
- On board, we attended after dinner the "True Colors" on-deck party at 11 p.m., wearing our red, white & blue from the good ol' USA and marveling at all the many international colors and their near-bare bearers around us.

Day 10:  Sunday, August 16
- Today we took an official cruise excursion from our port in Catania, Sicily.  We ventured to the famed hillside town of Taormina where we walked (along with packed crowds) through the Carmel-like streets (but more older and more historic, of course), stopping for pictures at all the right spots (the 1400 CE St. Nicola Cathedral, a Roman wall dating back to the first century BCE, etc.) and seeing incredible views of the island's coast and the Mediterranean.  Our key visit was to the ancient Greek theatre, still used today as a performance venue, where we took many more incredible shots of the surrounding area, high above it all.  We even visited a traveling art exhibit on Pablo Picasso and His Passions at a small museum in Corvaja Palace that included a very informative timeline of his life and work along with examples of his various periods and media.
 - Bach on ship, we played at the pool in the late afternoon until mid evening (admiring all the 'local' scenery), had dinner, and retired a bit earlier than usual (i.e., before 1-2 a.m. or later).

Day 11: Monday, August 17
- At sea all day, which was a welcomed rest from our many days of non-stop touring.  We mostly read books in the shade and then attended an uproarious, packed Bingo extravaganza, hosted by two dueling drag queens, La Voix and Dixie Longate (aka the fast-talking Tupperware Lady).  Unfortunately, we failed to win the several thousand dollars won by a few, lucky others; but we did get a lot of laughs for our $70 (cost of our Bingo cards).
- Today's 5 p.m. tea dance was military oriented.  We went as sparsely clad sailors, LOL.
- And the night's show was the incredible Vanessa Williams (the first African-American woman crowned Miss America) who took us through a journey of her life's ups and downs, bringing much humor and wonderful musicality to our evening.

Day 12:  Tuesday, August 18
- At Chania, Crete, we chose to explore the ancient, picturesque port town itself versus availing ourselves to the many excursions heading out to other sites on Crete.
- Our first, key stop was at yet another Archeological Museum, this one relatively small but still with interesting artifacts of ancient Crete and Greece.
- Continuing through fascinating streets of shops and alleys, we wandered through the old Jewish Quarter on Kondilaki Street and visited the still-active, small Etz Hayyim Synogogue, built in the 17th Century.
- Nearby, we had our first fabulous luncheon salads in Greece along with welcomed, cold mugs of Greek beer.
- Winding our way along the long seaside street, we went to the Firka Fortress, used in the past as a fort, barracks, and a prison.
- The Renaissance-styled Kioursouk Hasan Mosque, constructed in the 17th Century but now no longer a house of Islamic worship fascinated us.
- We took many pictures of the beautiful port and harbor, the many shops and brightly colored buildings, and the Chania Lighthouse proudly guarding over the entire scene.
- And we made our first purchases that were not replacements for lost items from our luggage.  After perusing for a long while a large ceramic workshop, we chose two small wall hangings in the style of many of the Greek and Roman sculptures and frescoes we had been seeing for well over a week.  We also happened upon a fabulous glass gallery of a local artist where we bought a brightly colored fused-glass wall piece reminding us of the streets and stacked, hillside houses we were seeing everywhere we went in Chania.
- The Tea-Dance today was a 'soaked' affair where 2000+ boys were repeatedly blasted with fountains and streams of water in all directions, all while drinking and dancing.  We chose to watch from above.  (I hate getting wet, and Ed decided just to rest awhile longer.)
- But in the late evening, we donned our Greek warrior outfits (thank you, and joined the packed decks for an all-out, fun "Mamma Mia! It's Greek!" dance and party.

- Day 13: Wednesday, August 19
- In magical Mykonos, Greece, we first bused with boys over to the gay Elia Beach for 5 hours of sun, lunch, and more 'sight-seeing.'
- After a shower and cool-down back on board, we headed on shore to traipse through the up and down, alleyways of white of Mykonos.  At the appointed hour, we met two of our best buds, Mike and Steve from Palo Alto, who just happened to be there as part of their vacation in Israel and Greece.  Drinks in their favorite gay bar (Montparnasse Piano Bar) followed by a wonderful Greek dinner made for the perfect evening.  Unlike them, we did not go to the all-night White Party onshore which was slated to begin around 1 a.m., especially given our ship was to sail at 4:45 a.m.

- Day 14, Thursday, August 20
- Since the ship was not to arrive at lovely, cliff-hanging Santorini, Greece until the heat of the mid-day sun, we chose to stay on board until late afternoon.  We then spent several hours wandering the shop-and-tourist-laden streets with incredible views and eventually watching one of the most amazing sunsets ever either of us had seen.  (How many pictures did I really take?)  We also on a whim visited a remote ceramic workshop where we met a fascinating, totally laid-back artist whose family had lived on this island for over 700 years.  His beautiful workshop and art pieces and his welcoming spirit imprisoned us for about an hour.  We of course bought something (3 beautiful, black ceramic birds that will soon fly forever in place in our bedroom), and we enjoyed his offer of Ouzo and his many delightful stories.
- In yet another gallery of art, we met a gay man who too was quite a character.  We found a modern-style, high-colored oil painting with ancient themes (including a central Greek warrior).  We bargained a bit and soon became convinced to buy it, have it shipped, and hang it who-knows-where.  But we thoroughly loved how it will remind us for years of our many days of exploring ancient Rome and Greece.

- Day 15: Friday, August 21
- And now we arrive in Bodrum, Turkey to begin several days of touring parts of the world that both look familiar in a European way and also look/feel totally different from anywhere we have ever been.
- In the beautiful, historic port town of Bodrum, we spent most of the day at the Castle of St. Peter's, built in the 15th Century using mostly the stone and marble from the ruins of the great Mausoleum (one of the 7 Ancient Wonders of the World that was destroyed by earthquakes).  At the castle is the Bodrum Museum of Underwater Archaeology. With 5 soaring towers and many wonderful rooms and buildings within it, there was a lot to see in this now-museum full of rare artifacts and treasures dating from the Bronze Age to the Byzantines.  A real highlight of the entire vacation.
- After a wonderful Turkish lunch at an outdoor restaurant on one of the main streets of the old city, we ventured to the site of the famed Mausoleum of Halicarnassus.  As we had read, not much was left but a big hole and some random pieces of ancient stones.  But there was an interesting history and drawings of what this wonder of the world must have been.  Still, too little for the long, hot walk there and back.
- The rest of our time ashore was mostly spent walking through the mid-town, pedestrian mall but this time, buying nothing.

Day 16: Saturday, August 22
- Today we arrive in the port of Kasadasi and had the wonderful pleasure of touring Ephesus & surrounding area with a wonderful, private guide (Phyliss) arranged by Okan (our friend Arthur's friend) of TSC Travel.  Our friends on the cruise, Kevin & Anton, joined us.  We spent several hours walking the wonders of the excavated ruins, including Artemis Temple, Ephesus Library, and the amazing Terrace Houses.  What we learned is that only a fraction of this ancient city has yet to be excavated.  From the beautiful hills all around are bits and pieces of buildings sticking out of the ground, all signs of layers upon layers of past civilizations under the earth.  All that is lacking, we were told, is funding, which is difficult to come by these days for major archeological explorations.
- We then visited the modern Ephesus Archaeological Museum that contained many statues and lots of other artifacts from the Ephesus ruins.
- After a stupendous, multi-course lunch, we had a wonderful tour and demonstration of Turkish rug making at a school (sponsored by the government) where young women learn the heritage way of hand-making these rugs.  Of course, we did succumb and buy a 6' X 9' rug for our bedroom.  How could we not?
- And we went to a large ceramic store and workshop, run for several generations by the same family.  The works of art there were stunning, and the ceramics ranged from small, everyday items to huge pieces of museum quality.  We bought a small, artistic bowl and a wall hanging made by an octogenarian member of the family. Ed tried his hand at the pottery wheel during the demonstration.
- Back on the boat, we learned (with much dismay) that the planned, next day docking in Istanbul had been cancelled; and instead there would be a day at sea.  The supposed reason was heightened security issues, but strangely enough, no one could find anything on any news site about anything to worry about.  (Current issues with the Kurds were occurring far away in a remote part of the country to the south, with Istanbul being way in the north.)  We suspect there were economic reasons for a ship and cruise company that both saw much more profit by keeping 2800 guys on board who like to party all night and drink the many bars dry.  But, who knows.
- And in fact, the 11 p.m. White Party began and for some/many (but not us), lasted well after dawn.

Day 17: Sunday, August 23
- So, like everyone else, we enjoyed a day of relaxing, reading, and packing.  We also had a great time at the final party, a classic disco tea dance at 5 that would not end for many hours.  Just imagine the costumes these queens on board wore.  Oh, my!!

Day 18: Monday, August 24
- At 8 a.m., we disembarked and immediately began a full, but never rushed day of seeing many sights in the fascinating city of 70 million, Istanbul.  The city is truly at the crossroads between Europe and the Middle East. As a secular Muslim country with strong European ties, East and West influence is everywhere. With us again were Kevin & Anton, and our local guide (again arranged by TSC Travel), Moustapha (whom we all thought he introduced himself as "Christopher," the name we called him 75% of the way through our two days with him, LOL).  On this day we visited all of the following:
- The extensive grounds and many palaces of the Topkapi Palace Museum, home of the Ottoman sultans for almost 400 years.
- The Grand Bazaar (where we bought a replacement suitcase). It is one of the largest and oldest covered markets in the world.
- St. Sophia Museum & Church, a former Christian basilica and then an imperial mosque and finally a museum.
- The Underground Cistern & Basilica dating back to the 6th century.
- The Blue Mosque (aka Sultan Ahmed Mosque), named for the blue tiles adorning its interior walls.
- A 1.5 hour boat tour of the Istanbul shoreline (Bosporus strait), full of intriguing homes/mansions, many bridges, forts, hillside communities, etc.
- The Spice Market (where we bought Turkish Delight from supposedly the best makers in Istanbul).
- We checked into one of the nicest hotels we have ever stayed in (and for a very reasonable rate), the Vault.  We had good-bye drinks on the rooftop terrace with Kevin & Anton, who were leaving for home the next morning, and watched the sun set over the hills, harbor, and many mosques.
- That night, we had a great time exploring the gay part of Istanbul with our hosts, Okan and Hasan (the gay couple and founders/owners of TSC Travel).  We once again came away with new friends we will stay in touch with.

Day 19: Tuesday, August 25
- Having Moustapha (still Christopher at this point) all day to ourselves, we once again went from one side of Istanbul to the other to see sights that were jaw-dropping:
- We walked all through the narrow streets and hilly alleys of Balat, the old Jewish/Armenian/Greek section of Istanbul.  We saw, but could not enter, the Ahrida Synagogue.
- We marveled at the Istanbul Modern Art Museum, all works by Turkish artists.  Again, our jaws were often on the floor.
- We went to the Neve Shalom Synagogue, a current congregation and a beautiful facility.
- We then visited the adjoining Jewish Museum of Turkey to learn the long history of Jews in Turkey (since 1492 when the Sultan welcomed Jews from Spain and Portugal to bring 'modern' medicine and the printing press to Istanbul).  Jews have actually flourished for centuries in Turkey and were protected from the Nazis by the Turkish leaders (who rescued many of their Jewish citizens caught in Nazi-occupied lands).
- We then spent time at Süleymaniye Mosque, Moustapha's personal favorite mosque, and our favorite too.  It also offered from its grounds awesome views of the city and port below it.
- Finally, we had a drink and a long visit with Moustapha before saying good-bye.  Another friend gained.

Days 20-23:  Wednesday - Saturday, August 26-29

-On to London, where we have visited before. Our purposes are to wind down, see some theatre, and visit with friends.
- We did spend a day in the British Museum.  While we had been there a dozen years prior, this time the visit had much more meaning since so many of the exhibits came from sites, cities, and countries where we had been on this trip.
- We spent two of the best days of our entire 3+ weeks with our dear friends Carlo and J.C., who came from Amsterdam just to see us.  We mostly walked streets, sat in coffee shops, ate fun meals, and drank a few pints (all but Carlo, at least, who chooses to abstain).  We talked and talked and talked.  We also got to meet a number of their London friends, who now are our friends.
- And we did see four plays (fewer than we would have if there alone, but spending time with friends won out easily):
- "Sunny Afternoon," the 2015 Olivier Award-winning Best Musical.  About the 60’s seminal rock group, The Kinks, their lives, and their music.  Very good.  Very British.  Rating: 4 E's.
- "1984," a staged version of the famous Orville novel.  Given new twists to bring it up to date today's concerns about "Big Brother" snooping via the Internet, large data banks, etc.  Very well done.  Very startling.  Rating: 5 E's.
- "Bend It Like Beckham," a new musical that follows the same storyline as the well-known 2002 movie.  The story is inspired by the first British women's soccer team to compete internationally in 1991 (long after other countries like the USA had well-known women's teams).  Has a lot of Bollywood flavor since the star player is a young British Indian girl.  The real sleeper of our four choices.  A winner.  Rating: 5 E's
- "Gypsy," the much-touted revival that everyone we know said we had to see in order to see Imelda Staunton in the role of Mamma Rose.  The problem is, Mamma was sick that night, and we got an understudy (the first time she had missed a performance in the 200+ ones to-date.  The result was only average.  Having seen Patti LaPone in the same role a few years back in an outstanding B'Way revival, we were really disappointed.  Rating: 3 E's.  (I am sure it could ha been '5' with Imelda in the role.)

Day 24:  Sunday, August 30
- Once again in business class on British Air, we enjoyed a nice, uneventful flight home, arriving this time with all luggage we but still missing the 4th piece we left with.

How blessed we are to have been able to make such a momentous, marvelous trip where we learned much, met new friends, and saw sights we had only read about.  How brave of Ed that he lasted through each day, even when his pain made it difficult at times to stand upright.  But as you can see above, he hardly, if ever, missed a beat.

And if you have made it this far, dear friends, you need a vacation, too!!

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