Saturday, November 14, 2015

Rob Lowe Is Teasing Me

My celebrity buddy is being playfully flirtatious and provocative. Rob Lowe is doing the late night circuit to promote his new TV comedy series, The Grinder. From what I read it is “sitcom about a popular TV lawyer whose drama series ends, so he returns to his hometown to work in the family law firm, where he squares off with his younger brother. Co-staring Fred Savage.” I have not seen the show and not likely to for a while. We don’t have TV or cable hookup or stream anything.

Anyway, Rob recently appeared on the Jimmy Kimmel Live show on ABC to joke about a new social media app that helps single viewers of his new comedy meet like-minded others.


I only met Rob Lowe once back in the early ‘90s. You can read about it here. And more about him here and here.

Sunday, November 01, 2015

Overdue recap of our August vacation

Our August 2015 trip to Europe had several themes running through it:
- Exploring in depth the Ancient worlds of Rome, Greece, and Turkey.
- Meeting some wonderful new friends and spending time with current, dear friends.
- Dressing in wild (mostly underwear-oriented) costumes aboard an 11-day gay cruise of 2800+ men.
- Dealing with British Airlines and 4 lost bags, one of which a month later is still to be delivered to us.
- Cancer.  Just can't get away from it.  It was omni-present for Ed.  Throughout the vacation he was dealing with on going side effects of his chemotherapy treatment despite being on a break from it. Throughout the trip he experienced very difficult and painful at times.  But he never slowed or refused to do what was on the itinerary!

For those interested, here is what we did day-by-day in terms of the major sites we visited and our opinions.  We took over 3000 pictures, and it will surely be a couple of months before a couple of Shutterfly picture albums appear.  But, they shall; and when they do, I will post the link for anyone who wants to peruse them.

Where do we go next year?  No plans yet.  Because of Ed’s ongoing chemotherapy treatments, one day/month at a time for a while.  But I am sure it will be somewhere fun and fascinating.

Day 1: Friday, August 7, 2015
Left SFO on a wonderful British Air, overnight flight to London, using miles to fly business-class.  With good food and wine and a flat bed to rest, the vacation commenced on very high notes.

Day 2:  Saturday, August 8, 2015
Arrived in Rome soon to discover, along with at least 200 others, that none of our (or their) luggage had arrived.  We learned, only after landing, that there had been a 2-day luggage handlers strike at Heathrow in two of the terminals (of course, ours being one).  We joined in line with lots of other frustrated, upset people -- all facing two frightened-looking clerks who were of no help at all.

We arrived 2.5 hours later than we had told our MisterBnB (like AirBnB, but for gays) home to be greeted by what turned out to be the nicest man in the world, Gianfranco, who before the week was out, became a dear friend and was a life savior for us.  Our beautiful, large accommodation had views of the Colosseum and was walking distance to many of Rome’s ancient and modern key sites.  It was also three blocks of what is known as "Gay Street," where we had a late afternoon beer each day after seeing sights and where we ate all our dinners. “Gay Street” is a LGBT friendly area on Via San Giovanni in Laterano, a street leading to the east flank of the Colosseum. Late that night we filled ourselves with pizza and took some great evening pictures of the Colosseum.

Day 3:  Sunday, August 9, 2015
Today, we plunged head-first into the glory days of the Roman Empire (after first visiting Coin Department Store the minute it opened to buy some clothes, hats, sunscreen, etc.).  We visited:
- The Basilica San Giovanni (Rome's largest and official church, more important to Romans than the Vatican).  (Visited while waiting for the store to open!)
- The Colosseum (Hint:  Buy tickets in advance online to avoid hours-long lines.  Tickets also included the Roman Forum and Palatine Hill.)
- Walked above and took many pictures of the Roman Forum, of the Sacred Way, Trajan's Forum, and other nearby ancient ruins.
- Spent a couple hours in the Capitoline Museums, the world's oldest public museums that house amazing, ancient statuary.  We took loads of pictures (especially of all the naked male statues, LOL.)  Took more pictures of the Forum from above and at different angles.  Michelangelo largely designed the Piazza del Campidoglio where the museums are.
- Visited Il Vittoriano (aka the Altare della Patria) and the Piazza Venezia, "an ostentatious, overpowering mountain of white marble" (as one guide book accurately described it), inaugurated in 1911 to celebrate the united Italy.  Now the home of the Unknown Soldier, Italians refer to it as the 'wedding cake.'
- Walked through the beautiful lanes of Palatino (Palatine Hill), once home to the rich and elite of ancient Rome.
- Had a beer on Gay Street.  Took a nap (Ed) & washed out the few clothes we had (Eddie).  Then ate our first of THREE dinners at the wonderful, little restaurant Clementine's (an imaginative Italian menu with lots of California influences) and met the owner, Diana, who also became a friend before the week was up.

Day 4:  Monday., August 10, 2015
- Made our way on the Underground Metro to Vatican City and spent the bulk of the day (5-6 hours) in the massive Vatican Museums.  (We arrived to find our online tickets were bogus.  Only through the good nature of one cute museum employee were we able to go ahead and buy new tickets rather than having to go get in a line that was at least .25 mile long (maybe more) of folks who did not have tickets.)
- Our surprise at the Vatican Museums is how many of the museum's magnificent sub-museums are full of ancient, naked sculptures.  Hmmm.  Highlights beyond all of those included incredible tapestries and the several frescoed Raphael rooms that were much more (to us) astounding than the celebrated Sistine Chapel. We were not all that impressed with chapel ... especially with the shoulder-to-shoulder crowds, the tense atmosphere and very rude guards. The frescoes are so high up (nearly 68 feet) the iconic art appeared to be thumbnail sized.
- We meant to go inside St. Peter's Basilica (where Eddie had been but not Ed), but the line to enter circled all of St. Peter's Square, so we passed on that one after taking several outside photos.
- We decided to walk the hour or so to get back to our home base of the Colosseum area (and Gay Street's cold beers).  Took lots of photos along the way, including of Castel Sant'Angelo, a round castle on the Tiber of Emperor Hadrian and converted in 6th Century into a papal fortress.
- Had dinner later that night (always around the 10 p.m. time) overlooking the Colosseum at a nice balcony restaurant.
(We did receive notice that all 4 bags had arrived at noon from London to Rome Airport. As it turned out, that did not help a lot.  Rome Airport was overwhelmed with thousands of bags and was ill-prepared and seemingly not-inclined to deal with them very fast.)

Day 5:  Tuesday, August 11
- Spent two hours with 98 other people (all of us who had gotten tickets at least a week ahead for the restricted visit) at the incredibly gorgeous Museo e Galleria Borghese in Villa Borghese (a mammoth, wooded park very much like Golden Gate Park in SF, home to museums, lots of trails, etc.).  Never have we seen a baroque setting quite like this, full of Bernini's amazing sculptures and many works of art by Raphael, Titian, Caravaggio, and others.  The ceilings are among the most jaw-dropping I have ever seen in this 'little' palace that Cardinal Scipone built and supplied amply (often threatening artists and other collectors with excommunication if they dared asked him to pay what their works were worth).  Several generations of his family (the Borgheses) continued to add to the art, including Napoleon Bonaparte's sister, Camilio Borghese.  This is a MUST SEE when in Rome, but advance tickets are a requirement.
- Visited the National Gallery of Modern Art (Galleria Nazionale d'Arte Moderna), and we were really impressed and delighted.
- Next, went to the National Estruscan Museum (Museo Nazionale Etrusco), housed in the former mansion of Pope Julius III (Villa Giulia) and displaying some of the most important pieces of Etruscan art in the world.  Another 'don't miss when in Rome'.  (We had already fallen in love with Etruscan history and art after a major exhibit several years ago in SF.)
- Walked home along a pedestrian mall street (Via del Corso).  Got caught in a major downpour without umbrellas.  Waited it out in a small, old church in Piazza del Popola.
- Dinner next to the Colosseum at an outdoor, gay-owned restaurant where we met other guys going on the same cruise as us later in the week.
(Today, our first bag arrived, but it was a small one with books, toiletries, and odds and ends in it.  No clothes or shoes.)

Day 6:  Wednesday, August 12
- Waited all morning until 1 p.m. for 2 more luggage bags to arrive.  Luckily, these were the two large ones with all our clothes and all our cruise party costumes!  But still, no bag with all our shoes.
- Walked to the Circus Maximus, which is mostly open ground now but still impressive in its huge size.
- Saw Temples di Ercole and Portunus, both dating to somewhere around the 2nd century, BCE.
- Explored the Teatro di Marcello (Theatre of Marcellus), where concerts are still held.  Took a walk around it and nearby in what was once the Jewish Ghetto of Rome, the first and oldest in Europe. Shop signs in Hebrew still seen along the bumpy, busy Via del Portico d'Ottavia, speaking to the heritage when this was the eastern boundary of the small, crowded part of the City the Church 'allowed' the Jews to live.
- Under renovation, we went past but could not see much of the Portico d'Ottavia, a colonnaded walkway built in 147 BCE by Augustus to display statues plundered from Greece.  The area later became a fish market during medieval times and up to the end of the 19th century.
- Went to the Sinagoga (the Great Synagogue and now also Museum, constructed in 1904 after the unification of Italy).  The museum tells the horrific story of the persecution of Jews in Rome from 1555 -- all started by Papal Bull -- and continuing through WWII and the Nazi occupation in 1943 and 1944.
- Crossed the Tiber and the small Tiber Island on the Ponte Fabricio (built 62 BCE).  Walked through the winding, shop and cafe-laden alleys and streets of Trastevere (which becomes entertainment central in the evenings, or so we were told).
- With pain about to cripple him, Ed stumbled the long walk back to our place.  But after some rest, we headed to Clementine's for another amazing meal and a fun conversation with the owner, Diana.

Day 7:  Thursday, August 13
- On our last day, we saw some of the other iconic, Roman sites that we had so far missed, all planned in a walk by our wonderful B&B host and now-friend, Gianfranco.
- But first, we went shoe shopping (since it was evident that our 4th bag was not to be delivered before we boarded our ship on Friday).  Luckily, sales abounded since Rome closes everything (all stores, most restaurant, most pharmacies, many museums) for at least a week, beginning with Ascension Day, Aug. 15.  There are worse things than shopping for shoes in Italy!!
- We first explored the many levels of the Basilica of San Clemente, a present church where we descended various levels to medieval and paleo-Christian layers to the lowest depths where the members of the ancient cult of Mithras met and performed grisly rituals.  There are still areas being excavated for further discoveries.
- We walked to both the movie-famous Trevi Fountain and Spanish Steps.  Unfortunately, the Fountain was turned off and totally under rehabilitation as was the landmark church overlooking the Spanish Steps (Chiesa della Trinity dei Monti).  Still, the steps gave Ed a shady spot to rest while I climbed to the top for some picture taking.
- As in Paris, the Pantheon of Rome (120 CE) is huge and very impressive.  Its inner dome is immense and considered one of Rome's most important architectural achievements.  Still today it is the largest unreinforced concrete dome ever built.
- One of our most enjoyable times in Rome was spending a late-afternoon lunch of thin-crust pizza and a mountainous serving of gelato at the immense and very busy Piazza Navona, eating at AI Tre Tariff.  Three beautiful fountains, many outdoor restaurants, and a constant parade of the world's visitors (not to mention a superb front-row table at an excellent restaurant) made this a hit.
- Less impressive by the time we reached it in the late afternoon as clean-up was occurring from its famed outdoor market was Campo de' Fiori.  And we were too early for its transformation into a supposed raucous, outdoor pub in the evening.   Oh well, next time.
- After our normal nap and rest, we surprised Diana by coming back yet one more time to eat and socialize at Clementine's and to grab lots of pictures with our new friend and the hot, young waiter who had served us all week (and whose name we never got!).

Day 8:  Friday, August 14
- Leaving reluctantly our friend and BnB host, Gianfranco, and with only 3 of our 4 pieces of luggage, we transferred the 70 minutes to the port city of Civitavecchia to board the luxurious Celebrity Equinox with over 2800 of our closest friends from 45 countries.  We had our first taste of an afternoon tea dance (a sail-away party) at 5, martinis, dinner, and then a great stage show by the British drag queen La Voix.

Day 9: Saturday, August 15
- Before we went ashore to the port of Naples, Eddie began the first of 7 personal training sessions he had with the wonderful Marco of the Canyon Ranch Spa on board.  Over the course of the cruise, Marco gave Eddie 5 days worth (all videoed) of exercises and stretches to help strengthen his lower back and to build some upper body strength as well as to work on balance and spinal alignment.  (Now the question is, will he really follow through at home?  Time will soon tell.)
- Ascension Day, August 15, is a nationwide public holiday where most things are closed. We arrived in Naples to explore first the winding streets and palazzos of the Old Town and then to walk quite the distance to the famed Museo Archeologico Nazionale (the National Archeological Museum) where we spent several hours exploring the many artifacts from Pompeii and Herculaneum, both destroyed by vicious volcanic eruptions.  We had a pizza lunch at a delightful outdoor cafe first (one of the few open today) and sat out a rainstorm for an hour or so having a couple of Diet Cokes.  We had hoped to end the day visiting the massive "New Castle" near the harbor but only got to take pictures from the outside since it closed early to prepare for a big, holiday concert that night.
- On board, we attended after dinner the "True Colors" on-deck party at 11 p.m., wearing our red, white & blue from the good ol' USA and marveling at all the many international colors and their near-bare bearers around us.

Day 10:  Sunday, August 16
- Today we took an official cruise excursion from our port in Catania, Sicily.  We ventured to the famed hillside town of Taormina where we walked (along with packed crowds) through the Carmel-like streets (but more older and more historic, of course), stopping for pictures at all the right spots (the 1400 CE St. Nicola Cathedral, a Roman wall dating back to the first century BCE, etc.) and seeing incredible views of the island's coast and the Mediterranean.  Our key visit was to the ancient Greek theatre, still used today as a performance venue, where we took many more incredible shots of the surrounding area, high above it all.  We even visited a traveling art exhibit on Pablo Picasso and His Passions at a small museum in Corvaja Palace that included a very informative timeline of his life and work along with examples of his various periods and media.
 - Bach on ship, we played at the pool in the late afternoon until mid evening (admiring all the 'local' scenery), had dinner, and retired a bit earlier than usual (i.e., before 1-2 a.m. or later).

Day 11: Monday, August 17
- At sea all day, which was a welcomed rest from our many days of non-stop touring.  We mostly read books in the shade and then attended an uproarious, packed Bingo extravaganza, hosted by two dueling drag queens, La Voix and Dixie Longate (aka the fast-talking Tupperware Lady).  Unfortunately, we failed to win the several thousand dollars won by a few, lucky others; but we did get a lot of laughs for our $70 (cost of our Bingo cards).
- Today's 5 p.m. tea dance was military oriented.  We went as sparsely clad sailors, LOL.
- And the night's show was the incredible Vanessa Williams (the first African-American woman crowned Miss America) who took us through a journey of her life's ups and downs, bringing much humor and wonderful musicality to our evening.

Day 12:  Tuesday, August 18
- At Chania, Crete, we chose to explore the ancient, picturesque port town itself versus availing ourselves to the many excursions heading out to other sites on Crete.
- Our first, key stop was at yet another Archeological Museum, this one relatively small but still with interesting artifacts of ancient Crete and Greece.
- Continuing through fascinating streets of shops and alleys, we wandered through the old Jewish Quarter on Kondilaki Street and visited the still-active, small Etz Hayyim Synogogue, built in the 17th Century.
- Nearby, we had our first fabulous luncheon salads in Greece along with welcomed, cold mugs of Greek beer.
- Winding our way along the long seaside street, we went to the Firka Fortress, used in the past as a fort, barracks, and a prison.
- The Renaissance-styled Kioursouk Hasan Mosque, constructed in the 17th Century but now no longer a house of Islamic worship fascinated us.
- We took many pictures of the beautiful port and harbor, the many shops and brightly colored buildings, and the Chania Lighthouse proudly guarding over the entire scene.
- And we made our first purchases that were not replacements for lost items from our luggage.  After perusing for a long while a large ceramic workshop, we chose two small wall hangings in the style of many of the Greek and Roman sculptures and frescoes we had been seeing for well over a week.  We also happened upon a fabulous glass gallery of a local artist where we bought a brightly colored fused-glass wall piece reminding us of the streets and stacked, hillside houses we were seeing everywhere we went in Chania.
- The Tea-Dance today was a 'soaked' affair where 2000+ boys were repeatedly blasted with fountains and streams of water in all directions, all while drinking and dancing.  We chose to watch from above.  (I hate getting wet, and Ed decided just to rest awhile longer.)
- But in the late evening, we donned our Greek warrior outfits (thank you, and joined the packed decks for an all-out, fun "Mamma Mia! It's Greek!" dance and party.

- Day 13: Wednesday, August 19
- In magical Mykonos, Greece, we first bused with boys over to the gay Elia Beach for 5 hours of sun, lunch, and more 'sight-seeing.'
- After a shower and cool-down back on board, we headed on shore to traipse through the up and down, alleyways of white of Mykonos.  At the appointed hour, we met two of our best buds, Mike and Steve from Palo Alto, who just happened to be there as part of their vacation in Israel and Greece.  Drinks in their favorite gay bar (Montparnasse Piano Bar) followed by a wonderful Greek dinner made for the perfect evening.  Unlike them, we did not go to the all-night White Party onshore which was slated to begin around 1 a.m., especially given our ship was to sail at 4:45 a.m.

- Day 14, Thursday, August 20
- Since the ship was not to arrive at lovely, cliff-hanging Santorini, Greece until the heat of the mid-day sun, we chose to stay on board until late afternoon.  We then spent several hours wandering the shop-and-tourist-laden streets with incredible views and eventually watching one of the most amazing sunsets ever either of us had seen.  (How many pictures did I really take?)  We also on a whim visited a remote ceramic workshop where we met a fascinating, totally laid-back artist whose family had lived on this island for over 700 years.  His beautiful workshop and art pieces and his welcoming spirit imprisoned us for about an hour.  We of course bought something (3 beautiful, black ceramic birds that will soon fly forever in place in our bedroom), and we enjoyed his offer of Ouzo and his many delightful stories.
- In yet another gallery of art, we met a gay man who too was quite a character.  We found a modern-style, high-colored oil painting with ancient themes (including a central Greek warrior).  We bargained a bit and soon became convinced to buy it, have it shipped, and hang it who-knows-where.  But we thoroughly loved how it will remind us for years of our many days of exploring ancient Rome and Greece.

- Day 15: Friday, August 21
- And now we arrive in Bodrum, Turkey to begin several days of touring parts of the world that both look familiar in a European way and also look/feel totally different from anywhere we have ever been.
- In the beautiful, historic port town of Bodrum, we spent most of the day at the Castle of St. Peter's, built in the 15th Century using mostly the stone and marble from the ruins of the great Mausoleum (one of the 7 Ancient Wonders of the World that was destroyed by earthquakes).  At the castle is the Bodrum Museum of Underwater Archaeology. With 5 soaring towers and many wonderful rooms and buildings within it, there was a lot to see in this now-museum full of rare artifacts and treasures dating from the Bronze Age to the Byzantines.  A real highlight of the entire vacation.
- After a wonderful Turkish lunch at an outdoor restaurant on one of the main streets of the old city, we ventured to the site of the famed Mausoleum of Halicarnassus.  As we had read, not much was left but a big hole and some random pieces of ancient stones.  But there was an interesting history and drawings of what this wonder of the world must have been.  Still, too little for the long, hot walk there and back.
- The rest of our time ashore was mostly spent walking through the mid-town, pedestrian mall but this time, buying nothing.

Day 16: Saturday, August 22
- Today we arrive in the port of Kasadasi and had the wonderful pleasure of touring Ephesus & surrounding area with a wonderful, private guide (Phyliss) arranged by Okan (our friend Arthur's friend) of TSC Travel.  Our friends on the cruise, Kevin & Anton, joined us.  We spent several hours walking the wonders of the excavated ruins, including Artemis Temple, Ephesus Library, and the amazing Terrace Houses.  What we learned is that only a fraction of this ancient city has yet to be excavated.  From the beautiful hills all around are bits and pieces of buildings sticking out of the ground, all signs of layers upon layers of past civilizations under the earth.  All that is lacking, we were told, is funding, which is difficult to come by these days for major archeological explorations.
- We then visited the modern Ephesus Archaeological Museum that contained many statues and lots of other artifacts from the Ephesus ruins.
- After a stupendous, multi-course lunch, we had a wonderful tour and demonstration of Turkish rug making at a school (sponsored by the government) where young women learn the heritage way of hand-making these rugs.  Of course, we did succumb and buy a 6' X 9' rug for our bedroom.  How could we not?
- And we went to a large ceramic store and workshop, run for several generations by the same family.  The works of art there were stunning, and the ceramics ranged from small, everyday items to huge pieces of museum quality.  We bought a small, artistic bowl and a wall hanging made by an octogenarian member of the family. Ed tried his hand at the pottery wheel during the demonstration.
- Back on the boat, we learned (with much dismay) that the planned, next day docking in Istanbul had been cancelled; and instead there would be a day at sea.  The supposed reason was heightened security issues, but strangely enough, no one could find anything on any news site about anything to worry about.  (Current issues with the Kurds were occurring far away in a remote part of the country to the south, with Istanbul being way in the north.)  We suspect there were economic reasons for a ship and cruise company that both saw much more profit by keeping 2800 guys on board who like to party all night and drink the many bars dry.  But, who knows.
- And in fact, the 11 p.m. White Party began and for some/many (but not us), lasted well after dawn.

Day 17: Sunday, August 23
- So, like everyone else, we enjoyed a day of relaxing, reading, and packing.  We also had a great time at the final party, a classic disco tea dance at 5 that would not end for many hours.  Just imagine the costumes these queens on board wore.  Oh, my!!

Day 18: Monday, August 24
- At 8 a.m., we disembarked and immediately began a full, but never rushed day of seeing many sights in the fascinating city of 70 million, Istanbul.  The city is truly at the crossroads between Europe and the Middle East. As a secular Muslim country with strong European ties, East and West influence is everywhere. With us again were Kevin & Anton, and our local guide (again arranged by TSC Travel), Moustapha (whom we all thought he introduced himself as "Christopher," the name we called him 75% of the way through our two days with him, LOL).  On this day we visited all of the following:
- The extensive grounds and many palaces of the Topkapi Palace Museum, home of the Ottoman sultans for almost 400 years.
- The Grand Bazaar (where we bought a replacement suitcase). It is one of the largest and oldest covered markets in the world.
- St. Sophia Museum & Church, a former Christian basilica and then an imperial mosque and finally a museum.
- The Underground Cistern & Basilica dating back to the 6th century.
- The Blue Mosque (aka Sultan Ahmed Mosque), named for the blue tiles adorning its interior walls.
- A 1.5 hour boat tour of the Istanbul shoreline (Bosporus strait), full of intriguing homes/mansions, many bridges, forts, hillside communities, etc.
- The Spice Market (where we bought Turkish Delight from supposedly the best makers in Istanbul).
- We checked into one of the nicest hotels we have ever stayed in (and for a very reasonable rate), the Vault.  We had good-bye drinks on the rooftop terrace with Kevin & Anton, who were leaving for home the next morning, and watched the sun set over the hills, harbor, and many mosques.
- That night, we had a great time exploring the gay part of Istanbul with our hosts, Okan and Hasan (the gay couple and founders/owners of TSC Travel).  We once again came away with new friends we will stay in touch with.

Day 19: Tuesday, August 25
- Having Moustapha (still Christopher at this point) all day to ourselves, we once again went from one side of Istanbul to the other to see sights that were jaw-dropping:
- We walked all through the narrow streets and hilly alleys of Balat, the old Jewish/Armenian/Greek section of Istanbul.  We saw, but could not enter, the Ahrida Synagogue.
- We marveled at the Istanbul Modern Art Museum, all works by Turkish artists.  Again, our jaws were often on the floor.
- We went to the Neve Shalom Synagogue, a current congregation and a beautiful facility.
- We then visited the adjoining Jewish Museum of Turkey to learn the long history of Jews in Turkey (since 1492 when the Sultan welcomed Jews from Spain and Portugal to bring 'modern' medicine and the printing press to Istanbul).  Jews have actually flourished for centuries in Turkey and were protected from the Nazis by the Turkish leaders (who rescued many of their Jewish citizens caught in Nazi-occupied lands).
- We then spent time at Süleymaniye Mosque, Moustapha's personal favorite mosque, and our favorite too.  It also offered from its grounds awesome views of the city and port below it.
- Finally, we had a drink and a long visit with Moustapha before saying good-bye.  Another friend gained.

Days 20-23:  Wednesday - Saturday, August 26-29

-On to London, where we have visited before. Our purposes are to wind down, see some theatre, and visit with friends.
- We did spend a day in the British Museum.  While we had been there a dozen years prior, this time the visit had much more meaning since so many of the exhibits came from sites, cities, and countries where we had been on this trip.
- We spent two of the best days of our entire 3+ weeks with our dear friends Carlo and J.C., who came from Amsterdam just to see us.  We mostly walked streets, sat in coffee shops, ate fun meals, and drank a few pints (all but Carlo, at least, who chooses to abstain).  We talked and talked and talked.  We also got to meet a number of their London friends, who now are our friends.
- And we did see four plays (fewer than we would have if there alone, but spending time with friends won out easily):
- "Sunny Afternoon," the 2015 Olivier Award-winning Best Musical.  About the 60’s seminal rock group, The Kinks, their lives, and their music.  Very good.  Very British.  Rating: 4 E's.
- "1984," a staged version of the famous Orville novel.  Given new twists to bring it up to date today's concerns about "Big Brother" snooping via the Internet, large data banks, etc.  Very well done.  Very startling.  Rating: 5 E's.
- "Bend It Like Beckham," a new musical that follows the same storyline as the well-known 2002 movie.  The story is inspired by the first British women's soccer team to compete internationally in 1991 (long after other countries like the USA had well-known women's teams).  Has a lot of Bollywood flavor since the star player is a young British Indian girl.  The real sleeper of our four choices.  A winner.  Rating: 5 E's
- "Gypsy," the much-touted revival that everyone we know said we had to see in order to see Imelda Staunton in the role of Mamma Rose.  The problem is, Mamma was sick that night, and we got an understudy (the first time she had missed a performance in the 200+ ones to-date.  The result was only average.  Having seen Patti LaPone in the same role a few years back in an outstanding B'Way revival, we were really disappointed.  Rating: 3 E's.  (I am sure it could ha been '5' with Imelda in the role.)

Day 24:  Sunday, August 30
- Once again in business class on British Air, we enjoyed a nice, uneventful flight home, arriving this time with all luggage we but still missing the 4th piece we left with.

How blessed we are to have been able to make such a momentous, marvelous trip where we learned much, met new friends, and saw sights we had only read about.  How brave of Ed that he lasted through each day, even when his pain made it difficult at times to stand upright.  But as you can see above, he hardly, if ever, missed a beat.

And if you have made it this far, dear friends, you need a vacation, too!!

Monday, September 21, 2015

Back From Vacation

Our European trip summary is coming soon.
Meanwhile the fall theatre season has started. We have been attending many Opening Night productions. Here is a picture of us all dressed up for the San Francisco Opera’s Opening Night. We clean up nicely. Check out Eddie's reviews at Theatre Eddys

One interesting piece of travel news. Our last piece of luggage FINALLY showed up 6 weeks after is didn’t make its connection. It was suppose to arrive in Rome back on August 8th. British Air finally 'expedited' delivery of this 'priority' piece of luggage at 11:55pm on Saturday night, September 19.

The bag contained all our shoes for our vacation: walking shoes, dress shoes, running shoes, sandals, slippers, flip-flops. It would have been nice to have them all on the trip but we are nevertheless glad to get them back.

Friday, August 07, 2015

Vacation Time

I’m in the middle of a 24-week chemotherapy cycle. I’m on chemo (FOLIFIRI with Avastin) for three days every two weeks. This is to treat stage-4 cancer in my lungs that started as colorectal cancer. It is really hard and it has taken quite a toll on me. The good news is I’m going to take a 5-week break from it. Three of those weeks will be traveling in Europe.

We are off to Rome for 5 days. I’ve never visited it but Eddie has. We are mostly going to play tourist there and see the historical sites and museums. Then we are boarding a gay cruise from Rome to Istanbul. The cruise is charted by Atlantis Events on the Celebrity Equinox ship. This promises to be fun. We have done quite a few gay cruises (the last one in February in Cuba) but none this big. The itinerary is:
Rome, Naples, Catania, Chania, Mykonos, Santorini, Bodrum, Kasadasi and Istanbul.



Our cruise ship


We will spend a few days in Istanbul and then finish the 3-week vacation in London to visit friends and catch some theatre. More details and photos when we come back.


Wednesday, August 05, 2015

Rabbi recommended

Eddie in the mid-90's working with temple youth.
Our synagogue recently celebrated its 60th anniversary. It threw itself a big celebration. Unfortunately we could not attend because of family obligations.  But we heard it was a great success and enjoyed by everyone.  The recent synagogue newsletter arrived with a wonderful tribute to my husband in it written by Rabbi Marder, our Senior Rabbi. It talks about his leadership involvement back in the’90’s.

…Over the course of decades lay leaders have been intimately involved in educational innovation at Beth Am. And yes — they volunteer by the hundreds, serve on committees, lead our affiliates — Beth Am Women, Beth Am Men, BATY and BAJY — and if they’re especially dedicated and talented, they’re honored by being elected to the Board of Directors. 
When I began my work at Beth Am, one of the first things I noticed was its distinctive leadership culture. Those chosen for high positions are intelligent, thoughtful and constructive in their approach. 
Leaders treat one another — and professional staff — with respect and courtesy. Differences of opinion are freely shared, but in any discussion the focus is on what’s best for the congregation, not personal agendas. Our leaders tend to be modest rather than ego-driven. They take the work of temple governance seriously, but not somberly; the atmosphere at meetings is relaxed and leavened by humor. And our leaders are not afraid to try something new. 
At our festive anniversary weekend, I had the pleasure of paying tribute to the people who most exemplify this positive culture of leadership: Beth Am’s 32 past presidents. Of the 20 still living in our area, all remain active in the congregation — a remarkable fact in itself. Within this outstanding group, there are two I want to single out in particular. Eddie Reynolds could not be at our anniversary dinner because of a family commitment on the East Coast, so I wasn’t able to present my personal tribute to him that night. But everyone who knows Eddie appreciates his very special qualities. Tall, lanky, effervescent and positive-spirited, Eddie exudes enthusiasm. He’s especially passionate about theater; he and his husband, Ed, see more than 80 shows a year and Eddie reviews them on his blog, Theatre Eddys
Partnering with Rabbi Block, Eddie provided expert leadership during the early 1990s, when Beth Am helped pioneer the Experiment in Congregational Education (ECE), an HUC-JIR project designed to employ learning as a path to synagogue transformation. Eddie’s role as an organizational development consultant made him especially fit for the presidency at this critical time, and he facilitated many a retreat and board discussion, guiding a diverse group to fruitful creative endeavors — including Beth Am’s nationally-known family education program, Shabbaton. Over the years he’s continued to share his talents with our congregation. He’s a loving dad, a loyal friend and a man who lives by his deeply-held values…
Synagogue newsletter
Interesting fact about Rabbi Marder, a straight, married women with a family, from her bio: In 1983, she became the first ordained rabbi of Beth Chayim Chadashim, a Los Angeles synagogue with special outreach to lesbian and gay Jews. During her five years with that congregation, she founded NECHAMA, a Federation-funded program of AIDS education for the Jewish community.
Beth Chayim Chadashim was founded in 1972 as the world's first lesbian and gay synagogue recognized by the Reform Jewish community. In addition it was also the first gay religious organization of any kind to be officially recognized by a major American religious denomination.

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

Rob Lowe Redux

This week my celebrity buddy, Rob Lowe, was all over my FaceBook and blogosphere feed. He was showing off is hunky, handsome, shirtless body.  As a 51-year old father, he truly rocks the Dad Bod look to the max.

I only met Rob Lowe once back in the early ‘90s. You can read about it here. And yet another entry here. I have found him to be a fascinating, talented actor and have enjoyed his movies and TV shows. He is also an author of two autobiographical books.

I don’t want to brag but I’ve discovered that several rare pictures of me shirtless from my Flickr account have been used in a number of blog and news stories about the “Dad Bod” meme craze that started a few months ago. Interestingly they have used photos of me from my 20’s through my 50’s. One even calls me the classic Dad body. Whoo-hoo. Someone get this daddy a latte.
Pic of me hiking in Scotland in summer 2011

Pic taken in 1985. I'm in my mid-20s.

Pic on right taken in 2014. I'm on chemotherapy for stage 4 cancer.

Cropped pic from 2014. Bloated from the chemo drugs.
If you click on the pictures you can see a larger copy. Embiggen all the images!

Thursday, July 23, 2015

Artistic Dad and Husband

I have always been attracted to artistic and creative people. My husband is no exception. In his youth, Eddie was very creative and artistic. He could have been a singer, dancer, actor, stage performer, poet, writer, and even a party planner. He did spend a major part of his youth singing. It was a passion he carried through college. But once he started his career, got married, had kids, got involved in a number of non-profit boards, music took a back seat.  Luckily, thirty years later he came back to it. Four and a half years ago he decided to audition for the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus, the oldest and one of the most prestigious gay choruses in the nation. He had to prepare a solo and present it in front of the audition committee. He made the cut. The chorus took about half of the men who audition. He has been performing with them ever since. I love watching him sing on stage. He has such focus and intensity when he sings. It is not an easy gig. They have a 3-hour rehearsal every Monday night, plus sectionals and retreats throughout the year. All the music has to be memorized and they have to learn choreography that goes along with performance.

His newest artistic passion is writing reviews of the plays and musicals we see. It began in January when I set up a blog for him to post reviews ( The theatre community noticed the reviews and he was asked to join the San Francisco Bay Area Critic Circle. The purpose of the SFBATCC is to promote and serve theatre of all types and sizes throughout the nine Bay Area counties. Then about a month later he was ask by a national theatre ( site to be the primary reviewer of South Bay theatre. And then most recently, he was accepted as a member of American Theatre Critics Association.
Update: He has now no longer just a reviewer for the San Francisco Bay Area at Talkin' Broadway, he is the primary reviewer for the new section San Jose/Silicon Valley at

Eddie’s reviews are very supportive of theatre and promote the notion of going out and attending a live performance.  He wants to excite the reader to be motivated to go see a show. He also presents an audience viewpoint of the various elements of the show: acting, sets, direction, music, etc. He then offers a critical analysis where the production excels or falls flat.

Personally, I enjoy it when he reads his drafts to me and we discuss the finer points of the production. We both have a great love and passion for theatre.
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